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Love in a coke bottle

“Love never gives up, never loses faith is always hopeful, and endures through every circumstance.”
“Love…. Bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things and endures all things.” 1 Corinthians 13:7

Love as mentioned above has no limits but what about our limits? Do we put limits on love? Limits to manipulate and gain something for ourselves? Limits to protect our hearts that have or may have been hurt or damaged?

Yes, we all have the ability to love without limits. The challenge is determining a couple things:

1. Do you have a healthy respect for myself?
2. Have I dealt with any past hurts or fears that might prohibit love without limits?
3. Have you risked love in a healthy way and found some success?
4. Do you find a longing to connect and be in love with someone, something?

The challenge isn’t finding love as much as it is discovering love that is pure, and a love that never gives up, never loses hope, always endures etc… That love only comes from God.

We are designed to be in relationship, that relationship is often connected with money, stuff, people or careers but God designed the relationship to be with Him.

A Youth Pastor friend of mine once told a story, illustration really, about people having a coke bottle shaped (we all know it isn’t a coke bottle but it worked for the example since he was holding one) container in our hearts. We will try our hardest to put things in it… for example.. sports, games, friends, drugs, alcohol, relationships. He went on further to say some of those things seem to fit for a season then we become discontent with them and then look to fill the bottle with something else and repeat… We never seem to fill that with something that lasts or holds long term.
Guess what? The reason isn’t because of the stuff we are putting into it are bad or unhealthy, it is due to the source. The source is supposed to be God.

The challenge isn’t fitting God into the bottle of our heart; it is allowing God to consume the space meant for him.

My friend went on to invite people to fill the coke shaped god bottle if you will with God. Some accepted, others waited and some didn’t respond at all which is ok.

We transition through Valentine’s Day this week and watching so many people stand in line at the local store buying flowers. I am not talking one or two but a line about 10 people long. We want to give our loved ones gifts that they can see, taste, feel but we should be giving the gift of God. A relationship with Him that fills the void and gives so much we change and share it with others. A gift that shares grace, patience and peace.

I encourage you all to spend a little time enjoying the gifts, flowers eventually die, the chocolate with run out, gift cards will be used, the watch or other material thing will break or wear out, but also invest in the eternal gift.. a relationship with Jesus.

Role Reversal? Say What?

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Role Reversal….. I think this is one of the biggest, most complicated issues in leadership; Primarily in reference with adult support doing what you want them to do or not!
So is the issue here with the adult volunteer or staff person or YOU?
I would tend to say it is more driven by you than them, not always but let’s start there.

We tend to have roles for people to serve due to:
1. a lack of interest on our part.
2. a need for help
3. your sr administration or pastor tells you to
4. You have parents to help but keeps them away from you

Whatever the reason you have people really doesn’t matter. What matters is how you equip them to serve (help)
Here are a few things to consider:
1. Do you have accurate job descriptions?
2. Do you have the appropriate tools for them to accomplish the task at hand?
3. Do you have a plan for growth?
4. Did you and are you praying for God to bring the correct person for the role?
5. Does the role and need fit into your mission and vision statement?
and How will this person(s) help move things toward that goal?
6. When do you need the role filled?
7. Who will be overseeing and training this person?
8. How long will that role need to be filled or expanded?

If our position allows us the ability to add and multiply staff and service opportunities we need to be diligent in doing the work before they come in-order to have success while they serve to eventually add additional personal for them to oversee.
If we invest the time in the front end we will be able to produce fruit in the end…
Please take time to prayer, plan and prepare.. it might be the difference between success and failure.

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